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Empathy Self-Defense
So you're an empath?
So you're an empath, and you tend to be overly understanding, loving, and compassionate? Then it's time you begin using empathy as self-defense. All it takes is a slight shift in mindset to start using your sensitivity as a shield.
— Jason Lee (@GalacticMonk_)
2:01 PM • Jul 7, 2025
So you’re an empath. What a wonderful place to be.
However, if you’re not mindful of your own peace, it can be a double-edged sword. Your empathy can be used against you, if you are not careful. Your ability to sense and perceive other people’s intentions can lead you to become overly understanding, loving, and compassionate. So your special ability, which is supposed to be a superpower, instead gets you stepped on and taken advantage of. People treat you like shit, and you keep eating it, believing it’s your duty to maintain peace, love, and light.
And so you have to shift your mindset just a little bit, and begin utilizing empathy as self-defense. As soon as you feel your energy is off, as soon as you catch a bad vibe, and as soon as the frequency shifts, is your sign to cut chords with anyone who harms you. You don’t need to explain. You don’t have to be understanding. Don’t wait for closure. You just cut them off and go your own way.
Being an empath is not some calling where you have to put up with being disrespected. I know you’re sensitive. But you can also use your senses as a shield. This is how you become powerful. And so cut them off with no regrets.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is an empath?
An empath is someone who deeply feels and senses the emotions and energies of others. Empaths are highly sensitive to people’s moods, intentions, and energies.
How can being an empath be a double-edged sword?
Without strong boundaries, an empath can be manipulated, drained, and taken advantage of. Empathy can become a weakness if you always put others before yourself.
How can an empath protect their energy?
By cutting cords with toxic people, trusting their senses, and not feeling obligated to explain or tolerate disrespect. Empaths must use their intuition as a shield, not just as a way to connect.
Do empaths need to give closure when ending relationships?
No. Empaths do not owe anyone closure, especially if the other person has been harmful or disrespectful. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own peace.
Is it okay for an empath to walk away with no regrets?
Absolutely. True empowerment for an empath means walking away when necessary and feeling no guilt for protecting your energy.



